www.bustingloosefromthebusinessgame.com New York Times bestselling author and transformational coach Robert Scheinfeld explains how to live your life in a stress-free environment. He teaches that “The New Business Game” is a way to run a business or do your job without feeling negative pressure – thus ncreasing your enjoyment and success.
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How To Avoid Workplace Stress
Sunday, September 26th, 2010Stress Management ? Simple Tips to Avoid Heart Attacks and Strokes
Monday, April 5th, 2010If you don’t handle stress it can make you feel tired, drained and depressed – it can also kill you. Here are some simple stress management tips to help you combat stress and preserve your health.
Stress management is the active and constant correction to your body and mind to the forces of stress and pressure.
The worst form of stress is the daily, repetitive and constant stress from any source.
It makes your body constantly react, release hormones and enzymes into your circulatory system, and in the end, destroys your immune system altogether.
Learn to manage stress now, and you can avoid that heart attack and stroke, just waiting to happen.
How Does Someone Know They are Stressed
Many people do not know they are suffering from stress and the effects of stress.
A few simple self-tests, and you can see if you are both stressed and suffering from stress. During any time of the day, do a body survey.
Are you hands clenched? Do you have “nervous leg” (leg moving up and down with the ball of the foot as a pivot)? Is your face tense?
Is there some pains in your shoulders or arms that should not be there? Test you pulse? Is it over 80 beats per minute when you are at rest?
Do you have high blood pressure? If any of these answers are a yes, you can be sure you are being stressed and suffering from stress.
Identify the Stressors
It is very crucial, both for your health, and well-being, to be able to identify the stressors in your life. It is not really difficult. Start now.
Make of list of all those people, situations, and factors that cause you stress.
Make the list first in any order.
Then when you finish all the items that are stressors, you must grade them form 1 to 5, 1 being the worst, and 5 the least.
With the stressors identified and graded, you now can create a system to manage the stress.
Grade 1 Stressors and Actions Required
For all grade 1 stressors, you must find a way to either eliminate or extricate yourself from the stressor source.
If the grade 1 stressor is your boss, you may need a new job.
If it’s a mother-in-law interfering in your happy home life, you may need affirmative action.
Take the list of grade 1 stressors, and put a workable solution next to each item.
Re-read the list, and consider the alternative of not acting on removal of the stressor.
If you get a heart attack or stroke, your life may be over. Acting now can save your life.
Grade 2 to 5 Stressors
For the lesser graded stressors, do exactly as you have done for the grade 1 stressors, but you do not
have to be so critical as you were for the very negative stressors.
If a grade 2 stressor happens to be a neighbor’s annoying cat, you might counter the stress by listening to music you enjoy (and not removing the cat, which you might find impossible to do anyway).
Be less critical, but nevertheless, even in grade 5 stressors, find a workable solution.
Stress First Aid
If you find your hands clinched, or your face tensioned, take one minute “time out”. Sit quietly and relax the tensed and stress reacted areas.
Consciously relax the part of you that is stressed.
This minute is for you. If you can’t find a quiet place to go, use the bathroom.
Put some cold water on your face and wrists. Sit for a moment till you are calm. Do this any time you see yourself stress and tense.
It could save your life.
How To Avoid Home Repossession
Saturday, March 20th, 2010Over the previous 12 months, home repossession in the UK has risen to an all time high, due to the global recession. The population of the UK has an estimated 1 trillion pounds in debt, including mortgages, credit cards and other loans.
If you miss just one mortgage payment, or just get a little bit behind on your payments, you will not face home repossession. In fact around 640,000 mortgage holders miss at least one mortgage payment per average year.
For your bank to bring action in court, you generally need to fall at least a couple of months behind with payments. And before they do anything, they will write to you or ring you to talk about the state of affairs. If you do receive a home repossession order, it doesn’t necessarily mean your home will be taken from you – you may still have time to come to an agreement over the debt. Some people have a number of court orders without actually having their home repossessed.
If you do get behind with your payments, the most important thing you need to do is to speak with your lender and explain the situation. Most banks would rather resolve the problem than have to spend time and money on repossessing your property, and forcing home repossession.
One option open to people who are having trouble meeting their mortgage payments, and who face home repossession, one might also consider refinancing your mortgage in a bid to avoid home repossession. If you have fallen behind in your mortgage repayments, and your credit history is usually adequate, you might be surprised with how easy you can get another bank or mortgage lender to refinance your mortgage. Of course restructuring the mortgage is only one, short-term solution, but it can help you avoid the stress of home repossession, especially if you see your finances improving in the future, when you get a better paid job. Additionally, refinancing you mortgage and avoiding home repossesion is also likely to save you from the collapse of your credit rating, which getting your house repossessed is likely to cause.
Specialist organisations also exist which specialise in buying homes which face repossession, and are acknowledged experts in the field of helping people who need to sell their home quickly to raise money and avoid home repossession.
If you do face home repossession, and your home isn’t sold for an amount sufficient to pay off the remaining mortgage balance, as well as any fees and interest, you may still be left with a substantial debt, which your lender will expect to be paid off. And if your home is repossessed, you are still responsible for ongoing property costs such as estate agent’s fees, legal fees and interest on your mortgage.
Stress at Work – Main Causes of Stress And How To Avoid Them
Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010Nearly 80% of American workers report feeling stress at work. Half of those say their jobs are extremely stressful. With so many workers experiencing such high levels of anxiety on the job, it’s no wonder so many of us feel on edge so often. What are the main causes of on-the-job stress overload, and how can the average employee create a more peaceful workday?
Watch Over Scheduling.
Over committing and over scheduling seem to be the number one stressor in the American workplace. Learning to better manage your work schedule can help decrease office stress tremendously. When work demands become too great, and schedules grow too tight for anyone (no matter how talented), to complete on time, be honest and report it to a supervisor. It may be possible to enlist a few coworkers to help get things back on track, or someone else may be able to take a chunk of the burden from you, at least temporarily.
Avoid Perfection.
No one’s perfect. Everyone has flaws, and everyone struggles sometimes. Don’t try to do everything around the office perfectly and don’t expect others to be perfect either. Acknowledging that you all will make a mistake from time to time, and finding ways to fix them together, can take the pressure off everyone in the office, making a more relaxed atmosphere for everyone.
Learn To Relax.
The body can naturally combat stress by relaxing. When a person actively relaxes during a stressful experience, the body can actually release chemicals into the bloodstream that creates a sense of well being and calm. This is called the “relaxation response.” It is possible to evoke these feelings by initiating deep breathing, and other relaxation exercises during an anxiety-inducing day, but the best way to permanently lower stress levels, and better handle anxiety, is to try and prevent it in the first place by taking time out each day for calming activities such as reading, listening to music, or just being still for a few moments.
Solve Little Problems Quickly.
Get control of the office by solving little problems quickly. Don’t let little issues now turn into bigger ones later. Tackle them immediately for a sense of control. Handling the little things that come your way will also help better prepare you for taking on the bigger stressors that are bound to arrive sooner or later, by teaching you how to calmly look for solutions, figure out options, and implement changes in yourself and those you work with.
Watch Your Attitude.
How a person looks at problems can greatly affect how they react to the stresses in their lives and work. Eliminate some of the stress in the office by taking a healthy look at your circumstances. Smile at the receptionist when you arrive in the morning. Laugh at your coworkers jokes (even if they aren’t funny). Try to enjoy your job and the people you work with. Changing your outward attitude will help change the way you see the things around you, and the way you react to them. It may take a little practice, but it works.
Adopt A Healthier Lifestyle.
It’s a fact: healthier people are happier people. When you feel good physically, you feel better about yourself, your life and your work. Stress doesn’t seem to have the same impact on strong, healthy people as it does on those who’re tired, listless and feeling downright rotten. Think about the last time you had a bad cold. Did every little stressor at work seem like it was going to drag you under? That’s how an unhealthy person feels all of the time. Exercise, eat well and get enough sleep. That’ll all help you better deal with the stress at work, and at home.
Stress can be good for you, but it can also cause some major physical and mental health pain, especially when you have to constantly deal with it at work. Try these suggestions for a better outlook, and a less stressful workday.


